Thursday, May 24, 2007

Jiggety Jig

Home again, home again. While I was gone, the blackberries in the garden zoomed from white flowers all the way to ripe fruit. This morning's breakfast was one of my all-time favorite combinations: fresh blackberries, strong coffee, and an apple piroshky from Piroshky Piroshky in Seattle. (I brought home four cheese and onion, and six apple, fresh from the oven yesterday morning.) If you are in Seattle, even if you feel you need to avoid the Pike Place Market, stop by the piroshky shop at breakfast time and have one of these with a decaf-double-whatever from the "original" Starbucks which is down a few doors.

Those who know me know that I would not set foot in a Starbucks, and now you know that I would, but only in Seattle, and only if I hadn't gone someplace else first. Starbucks, unlike McDonald's, is not entirely evil. I just try to support the smaller players when I can. I had the very best latte that I think I've ever had at the Cowen Park Grocery around the corner from my friend Karen's house in the "U District". I can't remember who roasted it, but it was perfectly flavored, perfectly foamed, and served (three days in a row) with a smile.

It was good to be gone, but it is good to be back. I live in a beautiful place. Yesterday afternoon when I came home, I took a shower, then a nap (I never nap-- there is always something to do) and in the evening I went to the garden with my basket and picked a head of lettuce, some basil, parsley, cilantro, and some blackberries, eating a few as I picked. I rubbed a few herb leaves as I wandered through the plantings, smelling new things like pineapple sage, and the familiar rosemary, curry and oregano. Mike and I had warm cheese and onion piroshkies with a hand-picked butter lettuce and herb salad for dinner. I was just in heaven.

Tuesday, May 22, 2007

Mama, I'm Comin' Home

On the plane tomorrow, bound for Oakland. Today, I was in Seattle, eating carrot cake on my friend Karen's kitchen floor with her little daughter Abbie. *Note: no children were harmed in the taking of this picture. Abbie is eating a homemade, baby-friendly, no sugar gâteau.

Wednesday, May 9, 2007

A Week's Worth of Florality

I visited the garden of a professional landscape gardener on Tuesday. It was such a beautiful place, not formal at all. I could have stayed all day. Here are some highlights before I say Aloha for a week or so.




Did I mention I love flowers?

Tuesday, May 8, 2007

Digging in the Dirt




This is what I did with my Sunday afternoon.

The Clean Team



In case you want to start cleaning your house with "earth-friendly" products and don't want to have to go through the trial and error period, here's what I use:

The Creamy Cleanser is my favorite for anything in the bathroom or kitchen, especially stuff that needs to be shiny after cleaning: shower, sink, chrome, even mirrors. We use the Citrus Magic (my favorite one is actually yellow, but this is the right label) for almost everything else: floors, counters, etc. We tried a couple of dishwashing powders before finding the Wave liquid. We also use an earth-friendly rinse-aid, but it's not as crucial with the liquid. The powders left a residue for us. We just tried the Meyers Clean Day toilet cleaner-- if anyone knows a better one, let me know.

There are all sorts of recipes readily available for baking soda concoctions, vinegar cleaners, etc., so I won't list them here. If you only get one thing, get the creamy cleanser. Once you use these types of products for a while, even Windex smells harsh, and you'll realize how chemically strong (and usually unnecessary) all that stuff is. We still keep carpet cleaner and similar specialty products on hand in case a stain is too tough, but these are our regular players.

Sunday, May 6, 2007

In Case Your Junk Drawer is Full

I've always wondered where to put these when I was finished with them. Thanks, IKEA!

More Cute Shopping Bags


These are made by Blue Q. I'm in love with their crazy designs. Oh my, have they expanded into all sorts of neat realms. I've got to go check it out right now. *Note: for more cute shopping bag resources, see my One Simple Thing post.

Damn Right It's Invisible

Does anyone else have this problem? I go to Staples (which I much prefer to Office Depot, by the way) and I am looking for TAPE. The problem is, every box is labeled STAPLES. Finding staples is equally difficult, because you have to look carefully at each box to make sure it IS actually STAPLES. Maybe it's just me.

Sorry for the crap picture. I figured it wasn't worth trying to get a great artistic shot, but I think it should at least be clear. I'll try again.

Thursday, May 3, 2007

Be Careful with Not Honest Website

"Dear customer, why would you believe a company offer a 3-5 Yrs warranty without "Brand Named" battery, by the time you have problem with the battery, they will said, " This battery doesn't belong to them!". Good Luck! 800mAh is highest capacity on this battery, other website have mention 1500mAh, those are false advertising. This battery case can't fit 1500mAh module inside of this case. So be careful with false advertisment and not honest website!" Oh, please to buy battery from you, honorable website!

Gratuitous Floralness





More Recommendations


I may have mentioned this before, but I wanted to mention it again: At the beginning of the year, I went to a new doctor, recommended to me by some friends, Dr. Eleanor Hynote. Generally, I am pretty darn healthy (knock on wood), eat well, exercise, and have few complaints. Except one teensy issue with PMS. I remember my mother also having a very tough time with it. Luckily, I was fairly symptom free through my 20s and most of my 30s. Through my mid-30s until now, though, I started feeling progressively worse about ten days before the end of my cycle. (I realize now I am venturing into a more personal area...but if this helps someone, that's important.)

It always felt like a switch was thrown. One day, I'd be smiling and happy, and things would be just fine. Then, like clockwork, the next day I'd wake up and feel anxious, angry, and like nothing was right in my world. Mike usually got the brunt of it. I thought it was just my personality, or that if I just fixed things in my life, I wouldn't feel like that. Then, the day before my period started, it felt like the cloudy gray veil was just lifted, and I could see the sun again. I talked to my old GP, but she didn't seem to get it. She told me there were no tests that could be done on hormones to determine if I had an imbalance.

So as part of my annual exam with Dr. Hynote, I talked to her about my symptoms. She said that it was perfectly normal for someone my age to have exactly these symptoms. (Whew.) She had me take a blood test on a specific day and determined that I was indeed experiencing an imbalance in hormones. She prescribed Balance (above), three each day in the morning, starting on the 18th day. I was pretty skeptical the first month. I felt the "switch" so I knew that I was going through my usual cycle. I started taking the Balance. The first day, I felt the same, the second day, I felt a little bit better, and on the morning of the third day, I woke up and felt not only normal, but HAPPY. I was ecstatic. I was so grateful. If I'd known about this five or ten years ago, it would have given me a lot more happy days, and my husband a lot less grief.

In addition to balancing out my hormones, Dr. H found through my blood test that I have one of the early indicators for heart disease. As you know, my mother had a quadruple bypass this last summer (poor Mommy!) and both of my living grandparents have stents, which I think is a prop for a formerly clogged artery. That, and diabetes on both sides of my family means I have to take extra good care of myself to avoid these things. Luckily, this precursor is treatable with a Niacin supplement. Now I don't know whether this indicator is something that causes heart disease, or whether it is something that people who have heart disease also happen to have, but if a relatively inexpensive supplement can address it, and it isn't harmful, then why not?

If you are thinking about seeing Dr. Hynote, you should know that she does not take insurance. The first consultation and exam are a bit expensive. Ouch expensive. The blood tests were also expensive, but were covered by my insurance. But the attention, comprehensive diagnostics, nutrition analysis and holistic approach to health were so worth it in the end. Ok, so now I spend twice as much on vitamins as I did before. But in the end, I'm healthy, AND I'm happier overall, so what's that worth?

Car Talk

If you live in the Napa area, and your car has mechanical trouble, take it to Storck's Garage. Write this down, because one day, that little "check engine" light is going to come on, or your brakes will start squealing, and you're going to say, "Dang, what was the name of that place Tamara had in her blog?" Storck's Garage. They tell you what's going on, they do what they say they are going to do, and they don't waste your time. They are professionals.

Speaking of professionals, if you get into an accident and you end up needing some bodywork or paint done, my next recommendation is ProTones. (Sorry, they don't have their own website.) We've had two cars painted by them, and they treat every car like their own. The car was perfect and shiny, detailed down to the thank you note, lifetime guarantee, and travel cup gift they left for me in the cupholder.

On the negative side, never, ever have your auto glass replaced by Auto Craft Glass in Napa. Avoid at all costs. A few months ago, we had a small crack in our front windshield and had it repaired by them. When we went in, the shop, which is a converted house, was a little dissheveled, including cigarette butts and a beer cap on the front porch. When we returned to pick up the car, there was a four-inch-wide strip of blue tape all the way around the windshield with signs not to remove for 48 hours for curing. Mike was immediately suspicious, having installed windshields himself.

Sure enough, removing the tape revealed that they were trying to hide some very big mistakes. The molding was the wrong molding, and was wrinkled in some areas and gapping in others, not making a seal. They had used a crowbar, or similar tool, to remove the old windshield, without protecting the surfaces of the car. So we had deep gouges in our paint all the way around the windshield, and even scratches in the dash board. It looked like the windshield had basically been put in by someone who had never put in a windshield before. I would include pictures here, but I don't want to dwell on it.As more information came out, we found that this was the second car the person had severely damaged, and the employee had been fired. But the owner of the shop (who, when he used to do all of the work himself, did a fine job, by the way) never talked to us, communicating through a teenage manager.

The happy ending to the story is that we took the car around the corner to ProTones for a repair estimate, and they were so helpful and so professional that it was a much less stressful situation than it might have been. They even picked up the second new windshield and installed it for us-- perfectly-- after repainting the car. 80% of the car had to be repainted because the damaged sections were continuous. The car is silver, so you can't just slap a patch on it. Every section that touched a damaged section had to be repainted to match. Anyway, the glass shop's insurance covered the painting.

My current dilemma is this: I just received an invoice from Auto Craft for the glass, labor and adhesive. I thought that was pretty ballsy. Why would I pay for the labor that it took someone to completely ruin my almost new car so that I had to have it repainted? If you were this guy, wouldn't you slink off with your tail between your legs to your insurance company and just write it off? I'd be embarrassed to send someone an invoice for such a total screw up. I have a check written out for the glass itself, but every time I go to put it in the mailbox, I just don't want to do it. I was without my car for a month because this jackass didn't know how to hire, train, or supervise his employees. I resent sending him anything at all. If he's already claimed it on his insurance or written it off his taxes, he gets paid twice. Bonus for him. I thought I'd just wait and see what happens, but he's probably sent it to his billing service, so they don't care. I thought about sending just a note back that says, "ARE YOU HIGH? Your employee wrecked my car. Pay for the damn thing yourself." But I thought that might be a little harsh. Tell me, would it be wrong not to pay for the windshield?

Saturday, April 28, 2007

I Dreamed of This When I Was A Kid

Two things you don't know about me: 1)When I was 9, I was obsessed with dinosaurs. 2) If my 41-year-old self had met my 9-year-old self, I would have killed my 9-year-old self for saying "neato-bosso!" five hundred million times in the dinosaur skeleton and diorama section at the Natural History Museum of Colorado. I dreamed of someday making a dinosaur that could walk realistically. Check this out.

Also check out the movie Fast, Cheap and Out of Control. Only part of it is about robotics, but the other parts are about animal training, topiary and naked mole rats. If my immediate family had their own special crest, it would have a naked mole rat on it. Last year for Christmas, I made everyone this coffee mug:

Why? Because my family watched a lot of PBS-- every nature show there was. One night, as we all occupied our customary positions, Dad at number one left on the green plaid couch, Mom at number two right on the couch, and my sister and I each on a pillow or a blanket on the floor, this show came on, and they started describing these animals that were so strange, so insect-like and disgusting, that the whole family started to laugh. Together. Which was not something that happened a lot. NMRs look like hot dogs that have been microwaved too long, except they have legs, and teeth outside their mouths, and whiskers. Like a bad cross between a Mexican Hairless dog and a hamster. Chew on that for a minute, and then go read the full description of their weird habits. Or get the movie and check it out.

Don't Drink and Blog

It's Saturday night, and I'm having a fantastic time. There is an event onsite at the property, and Mike is occupied driving around in a golf cart, turning lights on and off, and otherwise lending a genial hand. He's a good guy. He might be bombing in at any moment.

As for me, I came home from work, opened a bottle of wine, made myself a nice big salad with some veggie box greens and tomatoes (from Cabo, not from veggie box yet) and some cold cuts, and sat down in a lounger outside to listen to the jazz music from the event and read some magazines. I read almost all of Blueprint, which is unfortunately a Martha Stewart publication, but which was intriguing just the same. "Not your mother's Martha Stewart" I think they put it in one ad. Fresher, more modern, less stately and perfect than Martha.

This is my ideal evening. I left all of the shades open until it was completely dark, the TV is not on, Norah Jones is playing softly in the background. As soon as it got too dark to see the mosquitos before they saw me, I came inside, gave the dog a tennis ball to chew on, and continued reading. I just finished Eat, Pray, Love, by Elizabeth Gilbert, which I loved, so I bought two more of her books and may dig into one of them tonight. (PS- If Mike ever left me, this is what I would do every night, after I finished crying my eyes out for a thousand years.)I realize I have been lax in my blogging. I am a little stressed out about an upcoming deadline, which makes me feel like if I am at the computer, I should be WORKING, dammit. But the solution will present itself shortly, and I will be finished and on my way to Hawai'i soon. Yeah, that's right, I am going on vacation for a week. Try not to miss me.

Here is one of the things I meant to put up this week while my nose was getting grindstone rash:
Strawberries, and how I keep them fresh. This seems to work for me, though I have never seen it advised anywhere. Strawberries seem to deteriorate quickly in the refrigerator, drying out and losing their pleasant firmness. Fruit without its firmness is unappealing, unless it is a fig, in which case, figs with stretch marks and a little give are the sweetest (I so hope that women are more like figs than strawberries.) I rinse the strawberries (organic please-- strawberries are the most contaminated when pesticides are involved) place a paper towel on the lid, and then flip the whole thing over in the fridge. This seems to keep the strawberries hydrated, instead of turning gray and shriveled, but lets them drain so they don't sit in water and mold. Like I said, most written material advises against washing any berry before storage, but this works for me for the several days that it seems to take me to eat a container of berries.

If your lettuce or spinach gets wilty, don't throw it out, just put it in a large bowl with cold water until it is crisp and vibrant again, roll it in paper towels and put it back in the veggie drawer. Same with herbs. Rinsed and rolled in paper towels (recycled of course) they'll last nicely for at least a week. Even rubbery carrots and celery will perk up with a little water.

A few shots you missed this week:




Fava beans, asparagus and ham pasta, flowers, butterflies, the flowers Mike got me for doing all of the things I do (get your mind out of the gutter, he was talking about taxes and finances and keeping this ship afloat, and maybe some other stuff) and my gardening project, a big pot for the front porch, with a red-0range "dragon lady" cross vine, bacopa (yes, I know this will be scalded by the sun) and some scotch moss for that hit of lime green. I really like the way it turned out, and even better, the lawn sprinklers hit it in the morning so I don't have to water it every day. So far. But it isn't 100 degrees yet, so that could change.

My friend Randy, in the Marshall Islands, sent me an email briefly describing a bizarre but beautiful moment he witnessed in the hall at school (The College of the Marshall Islands).

This is what he wrote: "I was walking through a crowded walkway the other day (crowded because it was between classes) and was a few feet behind a young man. Approaching from the other direction was a young woman. As she walked by, without stopping or saying a word, she placed a half-eaten piece of cake in the young man's hand. He, without stopping or saying a word, put the whole half-eaten piece of cake in his mouth and kept walking. It was just really cool and elegant."

This is what I wrote:

He called her on her cell phone.
She took a bite of cake,
wiped her mouth off with the back of her hand
and flipped open the phone.
"Mouf?" she said.
"Hi, it's me. I'll see you in the hall between classes."
"Meff." she said.
"And you'll give me your answer then, right?"
"Yeff." she said, licking the crumbs from her lips, "I will."
As she approached him on the covered walkway,
her hips carved out a slalom course in the air.
Her hair was long and heavy and shiny black.
As he approached, her heart stirred, but her face was serene.
She placed the half-eaten piece of cake in his hand as she passed without stopping.
He put the whole piece in his mouth without thinking twice.
Walking on, her smile was wide like the seam on a bean.
His grin was broad and full of cake.

(I added a word, Randy, if you are reading this, I hope you don't mind me sharing all of this.) Randy and I had a poetry class together about a million years ago at Stanislaus State University, and he is very good at sending me what our instructor called "triggers" or things that you use as starting points for a piece of poetry. I used to write a lot, but I haven't lately.

Ok, so that's my week in a coconut shell. Aloha.